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Re: Rosetta Probe "Shirtstorm" debate
« Reply #30 on: November 21, 2014, 02:35:47 PM »
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@Joek. I'll need proof of lack of autism. This is a heavily exaggerated example of what you've been asking from me. You're asking me to find people for evidence whose voice I'm...voicing, those with no opinion on the matter, those who don't give a portugal.

The things I have asked for evidence of, by my count:

* Your assertion that there are a group of "feminazis" that have accused Matt Taylor of being a woman hater.

* Your assertion that there are "SJW" forums where SJWs go to plot against gamergaters.

* That your various misrepresentations of my arguments are in any way supportable and not disingenuous strawmanning.

These three things are literally every single time I've asked you for evidence at all.  It is self-evident that the burden of proof is on you to support all of those statements, especially since they are all unfalsifiable.  If you think that asking for evidence of these statements is unreasonable, then you should retract them.

Your analogy also fails on one further point: your assertion that I am autistic would hold the burden of proof.  My neurotypicality should be the null hypothesis.

Oh, and if it were meant to be a rhetorical point, maybe you should have made that clearer to start with.  Asserting it now stinks of backpedalling.

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This is one of the reasons why I have a problem with how you're going about all this. The 'proof' you show is nothing of the sort, there are no counterpoints included, the data is held in isolation. You can't just analyse things and call it proof. It's data. I don't think you're autistic at all, I was just using a gross example to illustrate a point.

I don't know what your point is, here.  As seems to be so often the case.  As best as I recall, the only thing I have described as anything even approaching "proof" is the fact that people saying that the shirt was problematic proved that people thought the shirt was problematic.  If you don't accept that as a proof, then, well, I don't know what to say.

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No, I'm allowed to use the word, because it's both technically meaningless and useful in this context where I differentiate between a person with realistic feminist goals and agenda, and a person who hates men and thinks women are superior as opposed to equal.

Yeah, saying that you're allowed to use offensive terminology to argue against a strawman position which you have utterly failed to show that anyone even holds does not make your use of the word any less offensive.

I'm not saying you aren't allowed to use it, I'm saying the use of the word is reprehensible because it minimises the suffering of people who actually endured Nazi rule.

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Whether you agree or not, idgaf, this is how I've used it, it's shorthand, get it? The rest of that was because it seems your delicate eyes can't bear to read something distasteful so how would you cope dealing with something even more grim but also as important to talk about? Nothing to do with me being Jewish in particular, saying 'my people' was just me identifying with another group of oppressed people.

I mean, this is just meaningless personal attacks, but if it makes you happy...

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Objectifying people as in thinking they are an object is not even a thing. Nobody without a basis in slavery looks at a person like they are a thing and not a person. It just doesn't happen, how the hell could it even happen, you'd have to ignore everything about them other than their existence. It just can't be done by a normal person. If you think it is so commonplace, you've not lived. You've not met enough people.

You are just being disingenuous here.  You know what objectification is, I've defined it enough times.  It's not just thinking of people like they are things, it's treating people like you think they are things as well.  For example, treating people like they are only valuable for their looks.

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You seem to always take the stance that someone is either a feminist or anti-women. Only the Sith deal in absolutes (which I think is an absolute in itself...).

1. No, I'm not.  I'm taking the view that your arguments, here and now, are anti-woman.  I've made no comment as to whether it's possible to not be feminist and not be anti-woman.

2. Saying "only the sith deal in absolutes" completely fails to demonstrate anything.  And is, you know, demonstrably wrong.  Saying "the earth is 4.5bn years old" is an absolute statement.  That doesn't stop it from being correct.

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Why don't you tell me then what counts as objectifying women in real terms?

Appearing on television in front of millions of people wearing a top with pictures of women in anatomically improbable positions wearing leather fetish gear?

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The entire porn industry maybe?

Not all of it, no.  There does exist such thing as feminist porn.  Lots of it, though.

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What if actually nobody is asking you to 'save' them and you're hopping on a bandwagon because you read something by a journalist online.

What if you actually read what I was saying and realised that actually many women had complained about this?  What if you either started arguing in good faith or at least stopped armadilloting all over feminists?

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I'm not saying you are, I don't think you are at all actually, I think you're naive as to how the world works. Not everything is black and white, people aren't put into boxes, nobody is 'just' this that or the other, peoples beliefs are malleable and *everything* is dependent on criteria being met.

Relevance. This point doesn't have any.

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On the shirt: It's clearly a piece of artistic design, designed by a woman I'm sure you're aware,

This is utterly irrelevant.  As I pointed out in my last post women are not a monolith and the fact that one woman, whether or not she designed the shirt, doesn't see the problem with it has no bearing on whether a) other women do (some did!) or b) whether there is a problem.

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saying he shouldn't have worn it is trying to censor it.

No it's not, and you know it.  It's not even trying to censor him.  It's asking him to show a modicum of forethought before appearing on TV in a way in which he will have more impact on the general population than a single other thing he does in his life.  It's asking him to be a reasonable person.  What it absolutely is not, is censoring him.

Even if the interviewer had said that he couldn't come on air wearing that, it still wouldn't have been censorship, because freedom of speech does not require everyone to give a platform for your views.  If Jubal became sick of my going on about this and banned me, that also wouldn't be censorship for the same reason.

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Start censoring art and you're on shaky ground.

Not censorship.

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The only people it offends are people that are *looking* to get offended by anything and everything. If there are people that have so little going on in their lives that they feel the need to get angry over a shirt then yeah, they have too much time on their hands. 'They' did not tell you, some of them wrote something online.

This point is as irrelevant as it was when I dismissed it last post.  You have asserted that anyone who finds anything that you don't find problematic, only finds it problematic because they are looking to get offended.  It's from your point of view extremely convenient, because it absolves you from having to think about why there might be a problem, but it's fundamentally intellectually dishonest.

Suggesting that posting what you feel about something online is different from telling people what you feel about something is at best self-evidently ridiculous.

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Many, many, many more don't give a portugal about the shirt.

Enough people in Germany didn't give a portugal about Jews, the disabled, gypsies, queer people, communists, socialists, and trade unionists that the Nazi party were able to spend 12 years trying to get rid of these groups with increasingly severe methods.  By your logic, the Nazis were absolutely right to do those things because most people didn't care that they were doing them. 


CONCLUSION

Your position:

* You have throughout this debate failed to give any evidence of any of your assertions.  When pressed, you have suggested that asking for evidence of your assertions is unreasonable.

* The only harm that you claim feminists to have done to you when talking about Matt Taylor's sartorial choices is talking about Matt Taylor's sartorial choices where you might have a chance of hearing about them.  I have contended that your right not to hear about it does not trump their right to talk about it, and that furthermore you could trivially have avoided hearing about it.

* You have multiple times misrepresented my views, and when pressed failed to either acknowledge that or show where I have held that view.

* You have claimed that because some people don't care about the shirt, therefore the only people who care about it are "looking to get offended" and don't matter.

* You have further claimed that I want to censor Matt Taylor's shirt.

My position:

* The backlash against those who made comments about the shirt was far out of proportion to the original comments, including death threats and the attempt to get a woman fired.  Both of which claims I gave examples of.

* There is a demonstrable negative effect on women when they perceive themselves to be being objectified.  I linked to a peer reviewed study demonstrating this.

* That at least some women feel that they have been objectified.  This follows from the fact that there has been a debate about the shirt caused by some people making blog and social media posts about the fact that the shirt can be read as objectifying women.

* That therefore, from the two above points, the shirt has caused some level of harm.

* That therefore, from the above, Matt Taylor should have thought about what shirt he was wearing.  That furthermore, his bosses in ESA should also have thought about the shirt that he was wearing.  One of them should have realised that the shirt was problematic.

* That the fact that either no one thought about whether the shirt was problematic, or predicted that some people would think that the shirt was problematic, is itself evidence of a culture at ESA which is not friendly to women in STEM fields, and that this is a problem.

I haven't yet claimed explicitly, but am going to now:

* Your consistent use of the language of objectification "assets", "sexual object" and so on is anti-feminist and anti-woman.  Your claim to think that feminism is important does not align with your other words and actions.

* Your consistent misrepresentation of my point and unwillingness to deal with the substantive points of my argument is indicative that you are arguing in bad faith.

Unless you actually engage with the substantive points I have made, this is the last I have to say to you on this topic.

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Re: Rosetta Probe "Shirtstorm" debate
« Reply #31 on: November 21, 2014, 06:43:42 PM »
You can't just analyse things and call it proof. It's data. I don't think you're autistic at all, I was just using a gross example to illustrate a point.
What was this point you were trying to illustrate?
Also as a scientist; data provides evidence, thats the point of it. As for proof, "proof is for mathematics and alcohol."

@ Penty, I wasn't insulting him, autism isn't an insult it's a different mental state. Yes I do know what it is, I've met quite a few people with it during group therapy who tell us about it during the sessions. Apparently there aren't enough people with what I've got to make a group from.
You clearly don't, autism is not a mental state its a wide ranging disorder characterised by quite a number of different attributes, mostly relating to social interaction.

Regardless of whether you whether you weren't using an accusation of autism an insult the content of your post is still very hard to read as anything better than an attack at joek's argument on the completely irrelevant basis that you think he displays signs of autism. Warning still stands, if you want to use something like this to illustrate a point then you need to make it very clear that that is what you are doing, and it would also be helpful to make sure the point is relevant.
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Re: Rosetta Probe "Shirtstorm" debate
« Reply #32 on: November 21, 2014, 07:15:46 PM »
Admin note: I believe Penty's reading of the ToS is right under the grounds that it covers "insinuations" rather than just "insults", and I'd say making allegations about people's mental health and condition without being extremely clear you're joking is in that category. However, I think this does also raise the point that we need to review and clarify many parts of the ToS. We should probably get on that.
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Re: Rosetta Probe "Shirtstorm" debate
« Reply #33 on: November 21, 2014, 09:07:46 PM »
@Penty. Right, tell me what I know about a disorder I've seen in action hundreds of times. I was also definitely not disputing the warning, it was fair.

Joe, I like you, you're passionately arguing for something you obviously feel strongly about. This is great, if everyone had your levels of enthusiasm for social justice the world would be a better place. But they don't, I'll explain why shortly.

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I'm not saying you are, I don't think you are at all actually, I think you're naive as to how the world works. Not everything is black and white, people aren't put into boxes, nobody is 'just' this that or the other, peoples beliefs are malleable and *everything* is dependent on criteria being met.

Relevance. This point doesn't have any.

It does. It really does and this isn't an insult, please don't take it as such. You're hugely out of touch with the people you're campaigning for. You have almost no life experience. You don't know enough women. If you did, you'd know that the average one doesn't care and it's mostly a non-issue. Not because they're anti-women but because they have immediate issues to deal with. This only serves to make what you're doing damaging for your cause, these issues being forced upon people, even moderate sympathisers is causing them to get sick of the issue.

You still don't seem to get the difference between a feminist and someone who takes that ideal way too far and pushes for inequality in favour of the oppressed. Which is why my shades of grey thing was also relevant.

On objectification: Nobody thinks like that and nobody acts like that in real life. I like your cynicism as well, but surely you can see this is too far? People don't act like that. It's just not done in this country at all, I can't say for anywhere else with any certainty though, if you're campaigning for global equality in the sexes. I wish you the best, I hope you're successful.

You've made no comment, true, on whether you can be not anti women without being feminist. Do you think that? I am as I've said before a supporter of full equality, thankfully this statements veracity does not hinge on your definition of it and rather my own practical definition.

Finally, why should the views of some be elevated higher than others? Why do some get preference? That is not equality. Hypothetically: He is anti-women, as disgusting as it is, he has a right to be and has a right to express that. Therefore saying 'he shouldn't have worn the shirt' is useless. Other option: He is not anti-women, he still has a right to wear a shirt with women in leather, it doesn't signify anything unless you also believe he thinks women should all be barely covered in leather. What he's doing is, by your own definition, not objectification. He has not acted like women are only good for their looks, he's not admitted to owning one. The view that he shouldn't wear the shirt is no more valid than an argument that he should wear it for fear of alienating the male audience who need boobs on screen otherwise they lose attention. The entire thing is a non-issue blown way out of all proportion.

You're right, in Nazi Germany people should have stood up to their leader but I'd say that's irrelevant here. No leader here is against women, nobody is forming a political party and trying to win an election based off hating women. All of our parties promote equality among sexes (even if some in each party don't).

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2. Saying "only the sith deal in absolutes" completely fails to demonstrate anything.

You're no fun at all, use movie quotes, reference pop culture, show that you're in touch with the present day! They don't have to make perfect sense, add a little lightheartedness and fun into what you're doing, I want you to be enjoying this as much as I am.
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Re: Rosetta Probe "Shirtstorm" debate
« Reply #34 on: November 21, 2014, 09:44:51 PM »
@Penty. Right, tell me what I know about a disorder I've seen in action hundreds of times.
I will as long as you incorrectly describe it unless you actually post something to show me that you're not incorrect. If you want me to provide evidence then I feel the National Autistic Society's descriptions are probably reliable as a starting point: http://www.autism.org.uk/about-autism/autism-and-asperger-syndrome-an-introduction/what-is-autism.aspx

Also since I've been reading this thread anyway I might as well throw in my opinion on the actual topic being debated.
First up I don't particularly care about it. I also don't feel that Colossus represents my opinions very much so I'd dispute his earlier claim to represent the people who don't care (assuming he was talking about the shirt in particular.) I agree that the shirt should not have been worn as it could give reinforce a negative perception of scientific fields, however the guy has promptly apologised and obviously wasn't intending on offending or alienating anyone. Not many people seem to be making a big deal about it, because its not one.
As to the feminazi debate, I believe the technically correct term is female chauvinist, but personally I don't see feminazi being any more an offensive term. I know there are some female chauvinists but really they are very much in the minority when compared to actual feminists and the labelling of all feminism as feminazism is just lame as portugal. Most of the people I hear complaining about feminism usually do so by complaining that male rights are being compromised in the west as a result of feminism, which is just whiny bullarmadillo.
On objectivism, I believe that absolute objectivism is probably managed by some people, but very very rarely (or so I would hope.) I am well aware that non-absolute objectivism (can't think of a proper way of wording that) is generally harmful to women, much more so than it is to men (the study joek posted shows pretty compelling evidence of this, and the example of a woman being leched upon during a job interview for example is a pretty good one. I'd speculate that the result could be at least partly due to women wanting to detract attention from themselves as a response to perceived leching since they generally have more reason to be genuinely worried for their safety than a man in the same position.)
Eh can't remember if I had any other particular views, can't be bothered to check.

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Re: Rosetta Probe "Shirtstorm" debate
« Reply #35 on: November 24, 2014, 06:58:22 AM »
*sigh* Is there a tl;dr version of this whole thread?
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Re: Rosetta Probe "Shirtstorm" debate
« Reply #36 on: November 24, 2014, 11:24:16 AM »
I said that armadillo got blown way out of proportion and that wearing a shirt with near naked women on is not objectifying females a whole. Joe disagrees. But that's probably a biased version of events...  ::)
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Re: Rosetta Probe "Shirtstorm" debate
« Reply #37 on: November 24, 2014, 11:26:16 AM »
I see... I think. Did you have to say it all in so very many words though?
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Re: Rosetta Probe "Shirtstorm" debate
« Reply #38 on: November 24, 2014, 12:33:51 PM »
No, not at all. It went on way too long.
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Re: Rosetta Probe "Shirtstorm" debate
« Reply #39 on: November 24, 2014, 07:51:16 PM »
Reading through that thread made my head hurt. :(

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Re: Rosetta Probe "Shirtstorm" debate
« Reply #40 on: November 25, 2014, 06:32:34 AM »
Just found something on iFunny I though I might put up here.

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Re: Rosetta Probe "Shirtstorm" debate
« Reply #41 on: November 26, 2014, 11:53:04 AM »
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Reading through that thread made my head hurt. :(

No one's making you read it if it doesn't interest you.

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Just found something on iFunny I though I might put up here.

I know you're being facetious, and that I'm just a humourless feminist(tm), but you can see the difference between the two scenarios, right? Starting with the fact that no one was suggesting that we judge Matt Taylor, just that we point out how problematic what he was doing is.


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Re: Rosetta Probe "Shirtstorm" debate
« Reply #42 on: November 26, 2014, 12:29:33 PM »
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Reading through that thread made my head hurt. :(

No one's making you read it if it doesn't interest you.
It was a very innocent comment...