Ahhh, this dearly beloved topic that I have been coming into contact with in varying levels of frequency over the past few months. I liked the points you brought up, particularly about the guest-rights during the TTRPGs that you run and the quirkiness of medievalism that needs to be urgently brought back into the picture. I do agree with you that a lot of the race-related issues we are facing comes from an increased attention given to grimdark fantasy, as opposed to the 'silly' kind of fantasy that we used to have some years back. Remember The Dark Crystal or The Neverending Story? And since you did mention non-Eurocentric romances, I am now obliged to share with you a few Tamil language movies from the 60s and 70s, which I realised retrospectively, having studied medieval romances, were actually playing with quite a lot of these romance and fantasy tropes. For instance, the 1965 film Aayirathil Oruvan (A Man Among a Thousand) features pirates and a maiden island, not far away from quirky fantasy movies, methinks. There is another movie, and a lesser known one, from 1967 called Mayamothiram (Magic Ring) is, as the title suggests, about a magical ring, and a witch and a curse that turns a lady into a man-eating werewolf, and there is a very fun little deus-ex-machina-esque ending to this. Perhaps if I find copies of these films with English subtitles, I will share them with you!