they are not going to delete search results containing some key technical term because in another context it is rude
True (though this does remind me of the fact that Exilian has a filter on a few core swear words, not actually because they're banned but because it's now an ancient and time honoured tradition that on Exilian we insult people by telling them that they're portugaling stupid and talking bullarmadillo rather than the originals of those words - there's a large exceptions list, of course, because we had somebody get very confused once when they posted about the Kushitic empire!)
It just seems like face-to-face communities reward "the organizer" and "the person who sends the weekly emails" but right now Internet culture is focused on people each pushing their own individual identity and hoping to make money out of it.
This is one of the bits I'm most interested in, because clearly it hasn't always been the case. When I was first running Exilian, we never had any problems finding enough people to do those organising roles. People were quite competitive about getting the various signifiers of rising in a website's hierarchy, and a fair number of those people would put in some work in order to get that. Now, we have important constitutionally defined positions that we just can't fill. I don't know where that middle cadre has gone or how to persuade them back into existence with new recruits, but I feel it's one of the key nuts to crack regarding getting a more workable internet again.
